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Disciplining your cute little preschooler is a tough job to do. It is really hard to get mad at somebody who still has a hard time tying his shoelace. While it is easy to accept things as they are, allowing your child to continue with his mischievous ways without consequence can be harmful. Below are a few helpful ideas to aid you in disciplining your little one.

1. Sometimes, even when you have repeatedly called his attention, he would refuse to budge from whatever he is currently doing. Once your child gets used to disregarding your warnings and reminders, it sends a clear message that she can "always let mommy's warnings pass". This often leads to defiance in the long run.n.

Parents should not raise their voices; instead gently tap the child to call his attention. If you need the child for an urgent matter, say he has to take his bath, prompt him to action by something like, "Okay, I'll give you five more minutes to finish what you're doing, and then we will take a bath". Make sure that you establish eye contact for your child to know that you are serious and you his response.

2. Whining and talking back

Kids can have "attitude" too, and they would often let out a mouthful before they are even aware of what they are doing and saying. They can sometimes just tune out, whine, or keep talking back. Often, kids talk in the same manner they hear other people talk, and the greatest influence are usually the parents and the immediate family.

If you want to correct your child's misbehavior, you would have to change your own "misbehavior" first. Tell your child that whining and talking back is disagreeable and improper, and you will not continue talking or listening to him if he will not speak to you nicely.

3. Butting in

Some children are naturally talkative. Oftentimes, they are just so excited to share their thoughts that they insist on getting their parent's attention right away......even when the parent is in the middle of a conversation with another adult.

Patiently explain to your child why he has to wait for the adults to finish their conversation before you can talk to him. Be firm and tell him that he won't get what he's asking for if he keeps butting in and interrupting you.

4. Sibling rivalry

A simple activity like watching cartoons or playing together may end up in a throw-down when siblings start to argue and eventually fight. Before the arguments deepen, you as a parent should interfere and have them sit with you while you listen to them explaining what the fight is all about.

After listening to them, explain to them the proper way of dealing with these situations. Communication is the key. By having a child stop and try to express what she is feeling, you are helping him learn a different way of coping with the situation and dealing with his anger.

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